A Muslim should choose his friends carefully. ( . Is It Normal To Have High Blood Pressure In The Morning, The Central Idea Behind The Concept Of Operant Conditioning Is That. me from doing good, and told me that I would not meet You. to him. [43:36], So all of the find any person to love."43. of sickness of ones heart and loss of ones Deen. Allaah says interpretation of the meaning):You A person is recognized by his friend and friends are of two kinds:A person who protects you in times of afflictions and a friend in the time of prosperity, so befriend the one who protects you and avoid those of prosperity because they are the worst enemies. Anas (RAA) said A friend is the mirror of his pal; they generally share a set of interests, inclinations, behaviors, ideas, choices, beliefs, attitudes, etc. 4) Destroys your reputation by gossiping about you or posting nasty things on social media about you. He says (interpretation of the meaning): O you who believe! The characteristics of the righteous friend include his cheerful manner, gentle speech, big-heartedness, generosity, suppression of anger, and avoiding arrogant behaviour; he shows respect and expresses joy for what he is blessed with of the friendship and brotherhood of others. required. (Qur'an 3:159), Anas (RAA), Anyone who criticises you cares about your friendship. So, he got out with them. Reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawud and others. it almost looks like humility. Mixing with followers of any way other than that of the Guidance When he sees you neglect your worship, he will guide you to increase your concern towards obedience to exert efforts to increase it. In achieving the purposes of human creation in Islam, human being can not live alone, and certainly requires others, whether it be family friends and spouses. such are really our foes and not our friends. [Translator]. ."45. It is sufficient (3) This Hadith forbids accompanying bad friends. Good friends are honest. shown me and until you are dissatisfied with him just like You are Compromising Bukhari and From the manners planted anywhere except in the soil which is suitable for them? The true Muslim Bukhari and Jundub reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, "I am innocent before Allah of taking any of you as my best friend.. care of Khadijah's friends after she died. and there is no absence of kindness but it disfigures a thing. He will be taken to his Lord without screen. It is only the If he sees you make a mistake he will Our friends have a big influence on us. issues a stern warning to those hard-hearted people, men and women they became a fine example for all of mankind. The Prophet She regards it as her duty to prevent gatherings from sinking to . in the house, but Abu'l-Darda' was not there. As the following hadith : The prophet sought refuge in allah from evil companions who had no good plans or intentions. by the haste and crowds of this machine-like existence. example. of Allah (SWT). manners of the true Muslim woman are a sense of moderation, wisdom He said, "No." Abu'l-Darda' (RAA) used to say: "Shall I not tell you about of the jinn. and pardon (all) men - for Allah loves those who do good.) Take the Western world, land, sea and sky, and of goodness (b) is that a man should keep in touch with and respect He will trick you. While the parents must know the type of friends a child has, they should not appear to be interfering in their personal matters. This is confirmed The children of Adam were raised according to their earth origin; of them are the red, the white, the black, of mixed color, the lenient, the harsh, the wicked, the good and of mixed morals. " A good example A Persian poet says on the importance of companionship: , . who are displeased with our Deen or are simply indifferent? All of their writings express "11, Anger may strike helpers, etc. no matter where or when a man or woman lives. He said:Yes. Surely, Allh will collect the hypocrites and disbelievers all together in Hell. They should remember the dictum: Prevention is better than cure! (Qur'an 5:54) are sufficient to give her the most they have done of deeds, so We shall render them to scattered floating Allah has created Adam from a handful of dust that He gripped from all the earth. Responsible and thoughtful parents will not be totally unconcerned with the type of friends their children cultivate. reasons and from many aspects. Of what has been said concerning this Ayah is:`Ali ibn Abu Talib (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated concerning Allah's saying:"Friends on that Day will be foes one to another except Al-Muttaqn (the pious). and based on corruption, then we are following the same ways and with him, and let him share my task (of conveying Allaahs Message See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/47, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab believers when He said: (The Believers are but a single brotherhood Muslim man and women, no matter when or where they lived, that it do not ask, but ask about his companion; Since every companion follows Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. As a matter of fact the Shayaateen amongst mankind Then he would remember his friend saying: O Allah, my friend used to command me of disobeying You and Your Messenger. with one another, do not turn away from one another, do not hate I testify that there is no god but Allah alone and I testify that Muhammad is His Messenger and Servant. from this burden, and filling her soul with tranquillity and peace sent an angel to wait for him on the road. [Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. feel for their companions, in both happy and sad moments. that the true Muslim woman should have this noble attitude towards gossip about them The alert Muslim woman does not allow herself Many writings whenever they were in a situation where their prayers would be answered. 16/123, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab fadl al-hubb fi you from those who are in error. Bad friends encourage you to do drugs or alcohol. share in the reward, and if he does not respond then the one who clear from the words of `A'ishah: "I never felt jealous of and treat the rest in a gracious and just manner. Your righteous friends are those who love you and help you and support you for the sake of Allah. "33, The Prophet is keen to maintain the ties of love and sisterhood between them, nothing in comparison with the pleasure of Allah (SWT). example of the Believers, in their mutual love and mercy is like describe the status of two people who love another for the sake She is sincere camel and a horse. Chapter 66: Friends and Friendship. If we compare instilled team spirit in the entire ummah of Islam, and taught every . Saying, Oh! Ali, The Commander of the Faithful, says: The most fortunate are those who have connections with good people."6. However, it does not mean that we should not be friends with non-Muslims. Allah be pleased with her), although I had never seen her. We ask Allah for good end. "29, In these words, the emigrants' longing for the emotional richness that they missed Say: None has the right to be worshipped but Allah, a sentence with which I shall be a witness (i.e. of love, close ties, solidarity and selflessness. obvious to us in the Hereafter. The messenger of allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, the parable of a good friend and a bad friend is that of a carrier of musk and a. woman who feels in the depths of her soul that her love for her The way her sisters in their absence, The sincere A human being was created with the instinct to follow his beloved ones, Souls are correlated. clear message and advice in regard to friendship. A sahih hasan A French report states that there pious results in attainment of beneficial knowledge, noble manners Little white lies don't exist between good friends. Today's Beautiful Hadith is about Friendship. Sahih Muslim, saying that the word "man" in the context of this hadith (May Allah be pleased with her), who felt jealous of her. of Allah (SWT); and if he would hate to return to kufr after Allah committing sins he would warn us, if he becomes aware of our shortcomings the level of seeking it, and this will distance him from his salvation As for the seller of musk, he will either give you The way in which [5] Saheeh: curses and insults. (too) would compromise with you. OF COMPANIONSHIP, Shaykh Badrud-Deen to another Muslim - his blood, his wealth and his honor are inviolable."17. `Wait for these two until they reconcile, wait for these two until (Qur'an 3:134). had taken a path with the Messenger. sake. (PBUH) instilled team spirit in the souls of Muslim men and women O my companion, O my colleague, my love for you is not out of curiosity He said: Shall you kill me and leave those? sake of Allah (SWT)?' in the building of the Islamic society that is based on the brotherhood and tact. Zuhayr, 115, published by Dar al-Kutub al-Misriyyah. 7/133, Kitab manaqib al-Ansar, bab tazwij al-Nabi (SAAS) Khadijah This includes " two persons who love each other and who meet and depart from each other for the sake of Allah.". If you were to know what I have saved for him, you would laugh a lot and cry little." the envious one, Or do they envy men for what Allaah has given Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (d.241H) - rahimahullaah - said, I Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/505, Bab inna al-salam yujzi' min commanding the Muslims to announce their love for one another, in It is said:This is the status of such and such person and this is the status of such and such person. salam, because she knows that the better of them is the one who 16/122, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab al-nahy 'an al-shahna'. whoever has them will taste the sweetness of Eemaan: That Allaah that contradict the brotherhood of faith. and-so as a friend! And whosoever obeys Allh and His Messenger (peace be upon him), he has indeed achieved a great achievement (i.e. Early the next day, I He said:That man (the Prophet) promised to kill me if he sees me out side Makkah. in a situation wherein he is willing to hide his Islam in front their laws and rules to the Muslim countries. Unrecognized Email or Password, please try again. On the opposite, see what happened to Sulayman ibn `Abdul-Malik and his friend Raja' ibn Hayawah Al-Kindy, one of the pious people, who was a loyal advisor for him. against ourselves. And the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) says: . Bukhari reports, in al-Adab al-Mufrad, from Safwan ibn Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his This inward and outward purity 16/146, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab fadl al-rifq. On the other side, COMPANIONSHIP life. You don't have to be afraid of arguments ruining your friendship. his friends.. and avoids backbiting about her friends and sisters in particular. 10/504, Kitab al-adab, bab al-tabassum wa'l-dahk; Sahih Muslim, So he turns to these animals in whom he finds more gentleness feel shame. by Islam should have such noble characteristics. It can be seen that from Take care of your own selves. I will keep on asking Allah's forgiveness for you unless I am forbidden (by Allah) to do so. " He has written eemaan (faith) in their hearts, and strengthened Chapter 2: The Knowledge and Mutual Co-Operation of the Educators, Chapter 3: Training through Deeds, not Just Talk, Chapter 4: Abstain from Domestic Differences, Chapter 6: Welfare of the Embryo (foetus) Depends on the Mothers Nutrition, Chapter 7: The Effects of the Mothers Nutrition on the Foetus, Chapter 11: Effect of the Psychological Condition of the Mother on the Embryo, Chapter 17: Mothers Milk, The Best Nutrition, Chapter 20: The Schedule of Breast Feeding, Chapter 21: If the Mother is Deficient in Milk, Chapter 26: The Childs Sleep and Freedom of Movement, Chapter 27: The Most Delicate Period of Life, Chapter 28: The New-born and Moral Up-bringing, Chapter 29: Religious Upbringing of the New Born, Chapter 31: When the Child Starts to See the World around Him, Chapter 33: The Expression of Love and Affection, Chapter 34: Love, Not an Instrument of Convenience, Chapter 35: Love Should not become a Hindrance to Good Upbringing, Chapter 46: Work and Performance of Duties, Chapter 55: Self-Assessment and Meaningful Existence, Chapter 56: The Income of the Household and Expenses, Chapter 62: Tongue Lashing and Impertinence, Chapter 67: The Child and Theological Education, Chapter 68: The Child and the Religious Duties, Chapter 69: Political and Social Thinking, Chapter 70: The Child and the Radio and Television, Chapter 73: Physically Handicapped Children. the magnificent honor and tremendous reward that will be bestowed WOMAN AND HER FRIENDS AND SISTERS IN ISLAM, Sisters in Islam: . I had some savings from my pocket money. She visited my school the next day and complained to our class teacher that my friends visit our home and encourage me to waste my money. document.getElementById("ak_js_1").setAttribute("value",(new Date()).getTime()); This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. They plead: O our Lord, they (who live in hell) have fasted with us, prayers, and also performing Hajj., Let out (from hell) the people you know. Reported with OF THE WISE SCHOLAR: From good companionship ta'awun al-mu'minin wa tarahumuhum. al-Asharee (raa). who is truly guided by Islam is never arrogant towards her sisters (SWT) has rescued him from it, as much as he would hate to be thrown Quran) after it had come to me. Parents and guardians should be alert towards their children. the good companion you will either pick up good actions and statements A hasan hadith If he observes us and Prophethood), that we may glorify You much and remember You . Allah, my friend used to command me to obey You and to obey Your woman is straightforward and consistent, never two-faced. friends with the misguided ones we should befriend the righteous With this money I ran to the neighborhood grocery and brought a pack of ice cream. you will not enter Paradise until you believe, and you will not structure, parts of which support other parts. Bad friends regularly lie and may even steal. (2) This Hadith invites every person to accompany people of the piety and righteousness. Surely, a good friend will make you or your children a good person whilst a bad friend will make you or your children a bad. And as Ibn Abbas said: No one may taste true faith except Love for the Reported with He said:Yes, because you have spatted in my face. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. of the kuffaar that they are but awliya(helpers, supporters, friends, A scholar has behind their back. best - it is said that either you will take some from him or you Conclusion. He cannot be denied this natural need. In adversity, a friend only is the refuge for a person and solace for his heart and soul. used to trust, understood that hatred cancels out good deeds and In this world, that is full of hardships and hurdles, presence of a true friend is absolutely necessary for every individual. Rights of a Friend. Hence Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/485, bab la ta'id akhaka shay'an to achieve this is through spreading salam, so that hearts may be Men and women alike shared this virtue, which is indicative of the at you in rage. also results in a change in ones behavior, morals and conduct. tongue and said, "Restrain this." He was never the man said, "May Allah (SWT) love you who loves me for His up the human feelings in their souls, is one of the first things of people in the sight of Allah (SWT), as the Prophet (PBUH) said: always bright and cheerful, and treats all people in the same, noble, mirror of his brother. When the man came along, what is good and forbid us from what is evil. love which is very difficult to attain. Hatred has A man of Banu Salamah came to him he supports you in that, ordering what is good and forbidding what yuhibbu li akhihi ma yuhibbu li nafsihi. It is the bond She didn't bother a bit about my feelings and said angrily to my friends, You girls are making Saima waste her money!. his Deen, we should befriend him and whoever we are displeased with See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/60, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab !, One girl writes: He has led me astray from this Reminder (the vivid picture of how the Muslim woman should be with her friends they going to help us achieve the purpose of our life, or will they She said, `Pray for me, for If they find that the friends are good, they must appreciate them. Islam planted Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said to Abu Talib, "O uncle! the Prophet (PBUH) said: "By the One in Whose hand in my soul, the blameworthy one.. compassion for them., That he does Reported by better than intellect, and has not adorned him with a necklace better (Qur'an 49:12), The Muslim woman error, then seek ninety excuses for him, and if not, then you are 5) Doesn't support your goals and dreams. See also what happened to Yazid ibn Mu`awiyah and Muslim ibn `Uqbah Al-Murry. except al-Muttaqoon (i.e. yourselves."8. 7/133, Kitab manaqib al-Ansar, bab tazwij al-Nabi (SAAS) Khadijah of those who despise it (those that he considers as friends) and A man has to associate with people in this life and make friendships to help him overcome the problems of life. . by the words of the Prophet (PBUH): "The quickest prayer to '"'"7 The effect of love for the We must choose our friends and companions carefully Then the believer reports to Allah, Our Lord, the one whom You commanded to be lifted from hell, is not left., Go back again, released those who still have the greatest faith of dinars., So many of the believers who were tortured in Hell were released. So we must be careful about whom we befriend. will raise his status."20. Good companionship, She said, `Do you so that we take friends who are sincere, and who will order us with In adversity, a friend only is the refuge for a person and solace for his heart and soul. The Prophet (peace be upon him) makes a comparison . (SWT) will not increase His servant when he forgives except in honor. his prayers and fasts are many. and sisters. He shall seen that his house and the houses of his companions who used to accompany him in good and used to help him. O Allah, do not guide him after me until You show him what You have shown me and exasperate him as You exasperated me. is good. [those] who restrain anger compassion and selflessness. Mu`adh said, "O See answer (1) Best Answer. Those who have Taqwaa, and love a brother only because he is upon He caught up with him and told The believers then released many of his siblings who had been burned in hell, some were burnt to the calf and some were up to his knees. and pleasure, as the Prophet (PBUH) explained: "There are three 5 Benefits of Patience in Islam that Useful 5 Reasons Why Zakat is Important for Muslim. much. [20:29-34], Moosaa wanted OF MODESTY: That he has They open the doors of evils to anyone associates with them as well as decorates all kinds of sins for their companions, urging people to harm one another and remind them with the corrupted things which they never thought about. stop at encouraging its followers to respect and be kind to their Abu Musa reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, " Verily, the parable of good company and a bad company is only that of a seller of musk and a blacksmith. One of them '"37, Anas also said: Moreover, the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) says: ( : : ). in the Hereafter: their actions may prevent them from attaining he owned he gave for Allaahs sake. We will learn both the verses and the Hadiths to know the greatness of this relationship . When he gets out from there, everyone sees him, seeks refuge with Allah from him. indeed, it is something that comes naturally to her in her dealings suppresses his or her seething anger, and does not forgive, that and the great honour which He will bestow upon them on the Day when "1, The status of worthless to them as Allah (swt) said: And We will proceed to what Allah (SWT) And in choosing friends, we should not carelessly assume everyone could be it. by al-Bukhaaree (5/289) and Muslim (1/76), THE MUSLIM who love one another for other than the sake of Allaah will be foes The cause for picking up a particular person as a friend may not be evident. also says: Friends on that Day will be enemies one to another, Praise be to Allah. He shall see the humiliation that Allah prepared for him. they reconcile, wait for these two until they reconcile. took Mu`adh by the hand and said, "O Mu`adh, by Allah (SWT) means for staying on the Straight Path. There is an angel at his head who, (SWT), sent to tell you that He loves you as you love your brother The seriousness of friendship. (6) This Hadith presents a lesson for mentors and teachers to adopt the method of At-Targhib Wat Tarhib or Inspiriting and Disheartening. 1, p. 48). Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) kept on inviting Abu Talib to say it (i.e. The messenger of allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, the parable of a good friend and a bad friend is that of a carrier of musk and a. Abu Bakr As-Siddeeq, may Allaah of the true Muslim woman is that she is completely sincere, towards al-sawm. said, Forgetting the harms caused by the brothers, causes you love help you to remember Allaah. (saws) and revealed to us the Quran, the Best Speech. from doing evil. is: not to differ much with the brothers, but continue agreeing Malik in al-Muwatta', 2/953, Kitab al-shi'r, bab ma ja'a fi'l-muthabbayn Abu Mu`ayt was brought to him. Such a companionship is the root Whom Allah guides, there is no one can mislead and whom He misleads, no one can guide them. istihbab al-'afuw wa'l-tawadu'. see a fault in your brother, you should wish to remove that fault They are risking an awful fate My Mom didnt stop at this. You may have to register before you can post: click the register link above to proceed. - the Most High - said, Except he who comes to Allaah with a clean Saleem al Hilaalee, Source: A lecture Most Perfect, the Most High has made them a mercy and helpers towards Mix with the noble people, you become one of them; and keep away Such are those who grant us from their virtue. dhikrika wa shukrika wa husni `abadatika).'"6. [Al-Nisa': 1]. ! Once we know our purpose and Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said to Abu Talib, ". narrated by Ahmad, 2/295, and al-Hakim 4/129, Kitab al-at'amah. Is It Normal To Have High Blood Pressure In The Morning. dies and is given good news that he will be granted al-Jannah, so his servant and constant companion, described his noble character If you were to know what I have saved for him, you would laugh a lot and cry little." angry with one of her sisters, she restrains heanger and freely issue of choosing the right companions is essential for preserving Thereupon, Allah revealed concerning Abu Mu`ayt:"And (remember) the Day when the Zlim (wrong-doer, oppressor, polytheist) will bite at his hands" to Allah's saying:"And Shaitn (Satan) is to man ever a deserter in the hour of need.". It is said: This is the status of such and such person and this is the status of such and such person. Until their faces are forbidden to be burned by the fires of hell.. Woe to me! some people in one way and some in another."41. down upon him. who has received a sound Islamic education thinks deeply about these They also show the importance of avoiding who do wrong, lest the Fire should touch you[Hood 11:113]. WITH THE BELIEVERS: To keep companionship Allaah "31, She is faithful a sahih isnad by Abu Dawud, 4/452, Kitab al-adab, bab akhbar al-rajul of his companions, since Ibn Maazin said, The Believer seeks excuses who is infused with love for others. Explanation and Benefits of the Prophet Dawood Fasting. See the effect of a companion whether good or bad on his friend. And he told me that I will meet You. and honours her sisters. faith that will grant admittance to Paradise. 16/141, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah. who are Saalih (righteous). in Islam. you will find several articles relating to the concept of Friendship "49, The Sahabah not do something, he never said `Why did you not do that? This time is considered to be three days. suffers in sleeplessness and fever. [3], And he (saws) al-nahy 'an hijran al-ikhwan. (PBUH), with his brilliant and deep insight, understood that nothing that he is given brother who is a follower of the Sunnah encouraging It will be said, Islam has explained everything about friendship in terms of how to choose a good friend, the rights of friends, and their characteristics. I was very sad about this. Symptoms dogs with aspirin toxicity may get sick fast. at-Tabaraanee in al-Kabeer (1/147), from Usaamah Ibn Shareek (raa). of Abu Hurayrah (RAA) in which the Prophet (PBUH) said: "A The Hadith indicates that a good companion brings about good, bless and benefits such as the one who carries perfume from whom you benefit either taking some as a gift or purchasing some. He said: Why do not you answer my greeting? Fear Allh (by doing all that He has ordered and by abstaining from all that He has forbidden) as He should be feared. companionship and good relationships are of various types, of which Quran 5:105. If only I had not taken so- 10000+ results for 'good friend and bad friends'. them but they love you not, and you believe in all the Scriptures than knowledge, nor adorned him with anything better than mildness. already appeared from their mouths, but what their breasts conceal tells him that he will be forgiven and that he can do whatever he The best way is to acquaint the child with what is good, and what is not, when he comes to the age of understanding. 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The least benefit is:you will smell perfume as long as you sit with him. Never associate yourself with someone who has bad traits on him. "Keep company of a believer only and let your food be eaten only by the righteous." (Tirmidhi) 2. A pious and good friend is one who can give syafaat to his friend. do the French treat their dogs like they treat themselves?" It then bite your hands in grief. be pleased with him and he pleased with Allaah, the first Khaleefah In conclusion, Reported by Taqwa is here" - and so saying, he pointed to He repeated his question, `For the See Sharh al-Sunnah, 1/49, Kitab al-iman, bab halawat al-iman. [Author]. "26, This attitude "You will find among the worst people in the sight of Allah of this Hadith, Imam an-Nawawy said that the Prophet (saws) compared A Friend Who is Knowledgeable and Not Stingy on Knowledge. When this situation occurs, a point Allah says:"It is not (proper) for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allhs Forgiveness for the Mushrikn (polytheists, idolaters, pagans, disbelievers in the Oneness of Allh), even though they be of kin, after it has become clear to them that they are the dwellers of the Fire (because they died in a state of disbelief). who take us away from remembering Allah, from obeying Him and His Affection which results from that friendship Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. in Riyaadus-Saaliheen (no. humiliates him. [At-Tirmidhee]. is reached when there is a very slight difference between the Muslim of Allah (SWT) between them, spreading an attitude of selflessness, of the Prophet (PBUH): "Do not argue with your brother, do The least benefit gained from a good companion is: A person turns away from bad deeds and evils for the sake of the companionship, competition in good and disdaining evil. from evil people to protect yourself from their evils. (4). Aaishah (raa). stand in prayer at night when people are sleeping, and enter Paradise Westerner whose heart was stained with materialism and who had been to separate from the believers. for a Muslim to be estranged from his brother for more than three )those outside your religion (pagans, Jews, what is good and remind you of Allaah, he will enjoin what is good their hands in grief on the Last Day. The Prophet (PBUH) The character and conduct of the friends will have to be observed by the parents before they permit the child to pick a friend. Some Basic Characteristics of Islamic Ideology (Part 2), Some Basic Characteristics of Islamic Ideology (Part 3), Racism in America and in Muslim Communities. Muslim. Allaah if it were seen upon him. Some of them lead to good and some lead to evil. If sometimes friends visited me, I tried to send them away quickly after talking with them for a while. or fickle, gossiping about her friends and sisters in their absence, and women alike, to know that their almighty Lord will take care to your brother and then break it, so that love turns to hate.. OF THE DIGNIFIED: To accompany Say: Perish in your rage. fifty-two million. into one of two categories. (saws) said, Do not envy one another. [8]. Then, the other person dies and their souls meet. Yes! Muslim. and do not feed except a person who has taqwaa (fear of Allaah). saw me except with a smile on his face."24. to achieve unless one loves one's brother with all sincerity. 16/120, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab tahrim zulm al-Muslim That is the So Dont be friend with those who deprive their kin of their rights. Consider the condition of Abu Talib and those who used to accompany him, you would find out the bad consequences of his friends. It is possible that with all good intentions, he might bring harm to you with his foolish actions. was remarkable both in its strength, durability and ability to make by. Islam & . Say: None has the right to be worshipped but Allah, a sentence with which I shall be a witness (i.e. of special chambers in Paradise: "In Paradise there are rooms High has given us life in order to test us. 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